You know it seems to be the time of ying and yang. Everyone I know is either going through a relationship break up, or having a baby.
And each love lost or love gained has been either a perceived blessing or curse. I find that most of my friends are wondering why me, why now? And then my other friends are like thank God it's over, or thank God it happened.
I found that the only way to find value in these changes is understanding how you react to them. If you think it's ok it will be. If you think it sucks it can be shit as well. I am doing my level best to believe that every life changing event is an opportunity for me to grow. To establish and create the better kim. This week I had a break up as well. I was laid off from my job. And I have to say even though in 2012 I spent 11 months out of work. I wasn't sad. I just felt like the universe is telling me something. And for the first time I'm getting it. Because the message has always been the same. This square peg is not fit for this round hole. Find the right fit Kimmers. Be who you really are. Make a difference. Stop chasing the money. Let it come to you. Try a different approach. It's time to be who you really are. Don't keep the real kim be reserved for vacations and weekends. Be her everyday. Be her now.
And I want to. So let's give her a try.
Mdc
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